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When entering into religious life in our community there are various stages in the process:

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Candidate: Once a woman's application has been accepted, she comes to live with us as a candidate. She remains in her lay clothes during this time. She begins to become accustomed to our way of life and also begins formation classes. 

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Heather Smith, Sarah Dent

Heather and Sarah

 


 

Postulants

Postulant After living with us for approximately 4 months, the candidate becomes a postulant, donning a gray jumper, white shirt and a Tau Cross. Her adjustment to prayer, work and ministry in the community will continue, along with study and classes in the formation house. Postulancy can last from one to two years. 

 


 

Novice When the postulant, in dialogue with her sister servant, is ready to make a deeper commitment to the community, she is invested as a novice. At this time she receives a short white veil, her religious name (she begins to be called "Sister..."), a copy of the TOR Rule and our community constitutions. Novitiate lasts for nearly two years. During this time contacts outside the community are lessened to allow for a time of deeper prayer and study. 

Novices


 

Junior Sisters

First Vows:  After all the requirements for novitiate are met, the sister vows poverty, chastity and obedience for a period of one year. She receives the community habit with a long white veil and the crucifix. She continues to take part in formation classes and various ministry and work experiences. She renews these vows every year until final vows.  

 


 

Final Vows:  After a period of three to six years, the sister will apply to profess her perpetual vows in the community. At this very special time in her life and in the life of the community she receives a gold ring, signifying her permanent commitment.  This day is a very special day for the Sister and for the community. It is her wedding day.  She makes her eternal yes to Jesus her spouse. She vows to live the counsels of poverty, chastity , and obedience for the rest of her life.  The Sister's family and friends are usually present for this big celebration that takes place in the ultimate celebration of the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.


                "You shall be a glorious crown in the hand of the Lord,  a royal diadem held by your God... You shall be called "My Delight," and your land "Espoused." (Is 63)


The red roses in the bridal crown highlight our charism of crucified love through our call to lay down our life for others.  The white roses represent our call of self gift in the events of daily life.

The white cape not only is a nuptial garment but also symbolizes the purity and beauty of our baptismal garment.

The commitment to religious life is a call to live out our baptismal consecration to its fullness as we image to the world the union with Christ to which we are all called here on earth and most perfectly lived out in heaven. ~Constitutions


"As a young man marries a virgin, your builder shall marry you:  And as   a bridegroom rejoices in his bride so shall your God rejoice in you." (Is 63)


"Relying on His mercy, I entrust my life to the chaste, poor, and obedient Christ.  I freely choose to join our Sorrowful Mother at the foot of the cross, and, with St. Francis as my model of Gospel living, I place myself at the disposal of this religious congregation, to glorify God and to make known His merciful Love." ~profession formula

"Our call as religious is not only to give witness to Christ's loving presence here on earth but to show that the Incarnate Son of God is the eschatological goal toward which all things tend, the splendor before which every other light pales, and the beauty which alone can fully satisfy the human heart." ~Const.

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